HEARTBREAK. I don’t know one person who hasn’t experienced it. The difference between me and you is that I’m choosing to share my experience–
so no judgement.
I think for me what makes it hurt the most is how unexpected it was. One minute you’re on the same page, or you think you’re on the same page, the next you’re breaking up. My nurturing nature makes it hard for me to let go. Loving someone from a distance feels nearly impossible. But i always find a way. It’s a process. When in doubt, keep busy.
If you haven’t already noticed, this entry is not being written from a place of hurt or weakness but actually from strength. Having the strength and courage to share my experience without fear of judgement makes me feel empowered. Taking control of my experience instead of allowing it to control me.
Too often I’ve seen women and young girls fall into a slump or feel ashamed because of a love that was lost and i’ve been one of them. However, this time its different, this time i’m choosing how much i will allow a breakup to impact my life. I’m not a victim and i don’t believe that there are victims in love that has been lost. We each can maintain control and power over ourselves and either choose to be sad, and dwell, and replay the relationship, and what went wrong, over, and over again. Or, we can choose to carry on. One day at a time.
Nevertheless, it is necessary to allow yourself to feel however you feel. No one gets to tell you when and how you should feel. Just remember to take ownership of your own feelings whatever they are.
Let’s find joy within ourselves first so that lost love can hurt a little less. Sending positive vibes your way.